I know it’s sometimes difficult to not be That Guy, but whenever you avoid it does it mean that another guy has to be That Guy? And how does it happen that That Guy will then inevitably manifest far too close to you? Is it a form of transmigration?
Also: if not being That Guy means that another guy has to be That Guy, then perhaps you are consequently being That Guy by forcing that guy into the position of becoming That Guy, through a relative process of elimination.
In this case shd you be That Guy so that the other guy doesn’t have to be That Guy? In effect running interference for them and thereby proving that That Guy can be the guy to be.